Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Introduction

Where to begin. This is the first time I have done something like this. I wish I wasn't doing it now, but this seems the best way to communicate with everyone. My name is Angie and I am a 28 year old married woman from Milwaukee. I have been pretty healthy my entire life. That all changed on June 7, 2008 when I got a call from my doctor that some tests she had run came back as being positive for something called Inflammatory Breast Cancer, the rarest form of breast cancer there is. Only 1% of women diagnosed with breast cancer are diagnosed with IBC.

This all began about nine months ago while I was studying for my LSAT. For those of you who don't know the LSAT is a test that is needed for anyone to apply to law school. My plan was to take the LSAT, go to school and become a lawyer, have children and live happily ever after. Never in my dream did I foresee myself walking down that road with breast cancer. In September of 2007 as I was studying for my test, I remembered getting a sharp stabbing pain in my left breast. I figured it was just the stress of the test and ignored it. A couple of months later, while doing a self exam, I found a lump. I am a very large chested woman, so thinking that it was just fatty tissue, I did nothing about the lump. Recently, my breast became more swollen and about three weeks ago, it became very red and hot to the touch. Heeding my friends and parents advice, I made an appointment with a doctor at my family practice office. My normal doctor was unavailable as she works only three days a week, so I was forced to see another doctor. That doctor, ordered and ultrasound and put me on some antibiotics, because someone as young as me was too young to have breast cancer. A couple days later, I had the ultrasound - but nothing was found. The radiologist came in to the room and said that he thought I had a really bad infection because again, I was too young to have breast cancer. The next day, I went back to my doctor because of some headaches I was having, this time my mother came in from out of town to go with me. She forced the doctor to send me to a surgeon for a second opinion on my lump. In doing research on IBC, I found that my symptoms and the symptoms of IBC were extremely similar - so obviously we didn't want to wait around for two weeks to test the antibiotics he wanted to try. So we got a referral for a surgeon and when my mother asked the doctor if she was a specialist in breast issues, he said "well she is a woman, and she is a surgeon". Like that means anything at all??? Luckily, the doctor he sent me to see was to busy so her partner called me the next day and got me in to see her a week earlier than my scheduled appointment.

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

Angie,

I will be hoping and praying for your full recovery. We miss your beautiful smile here very much.

Susie
WHD

Beth said...

I thought about what to say and it got kind of sappy. And then I heard your little voice say "seriously" and then it said "whatever". So OK, I won't be sappy.

You will fight and you will win! And I will be there to support you the entire way!

I love you!
Beth

Katie said...

Hi Angie-bo-Bangie (as I love to call you.) So many people are thinking of you. I can't wait to see your bubbly beautiful face again.
With love,
Katie

Millie said...

I ♥ My Auntie Angie

Love, Millie

snowgal said...

My Dear Angie,
Know that the thoughts and special prayers of those who LOVE YOU will be there praying for your full recovery.
Love & God Bles,
Auntie Jan

Jutta said...

Hi Angie,
We miss you a lot. Can't wait to see you back here in our super duper pod. We are here for you if you need us. Remember: Ich habe etwas fuer Dich!
Jutta

Mandy said...

Ang -


I love you tons! I will be with you all the way while you kick IBC's booty!

Always thinking of you! Mandy

Unknown said...

Angie, you know I love you and will be here for whatever you need. You are going to beat this!
Angela

Shari said...

I love you Ang and am here to help you rock through treatement and get well!

Jan Burleigh said...

Angie,

I'm Jan (Beth's aunt). I just wanted you to know that our family is praying for you. You are a strong woman and fighter - that's excellent!

Many prayers and peace,
Jan Burleigh

Sylvia said...

I've been beside you for years and will continue to be beside you supporting you every step of the way.
Thinking of you ~ Sylvia

Anonymous said...

Angie-
Love you lots with tater tots and you will beat this and your sisters are here every step of the way to help you.

Love you,
Quanna

Yvonne said...

Hang in there, Kiddo! You’ve got a big challenge ahead of you but we all know you’ve never met a challenge you couldn’t overcome. Be brave, be strong and take it one day at a time. You have a whole lot of friends out here praying for you. “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. After all, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.”

You're always in my thoughts ...

~Yvonne

Sue E. said...

Angie,

I was so sorry to hear your unexpected news. One good thing about working in such a large place - there will be MANY people praying for you. I truly believe there is strength in numbers. Concentrate on the success stories - you will be one of them!

Sue E.
WHD

Pat L. said...

You might already know that I'm a gambler so it only makes sense that I placed all my bets on you to beat IBC. All the thoughts, prayers and high hopes we have for you won't let you down.

Unknown said...

Angie,
Sorry that you have to go through this, but you are a strong person and I believe that you come out stronger in the end!
Love you!
Laura
=)

p.s. You are never too young for breast cancer or any other type of cancer!!!

Yvette said...

Angie, I am just speechless. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers and continue to pray for your strength as you go through treatment. Stay positive and I'm cheering for you.

YO said...

Angie: I am soo sad and needless to say shockec to hear you going thru this. I will be keeping you in my daily thoughts and prayers (sometmies God listens to me...) We miss you much!

YO - WHD

Meta said...

Angie,

I am praying for you... that you will be well soon.

Meta
Chi Omega

Anonymous said...

Dearest Angie,

Please know that our family has you in our prayers. You are very blessed with so many loving friends and family, that the support will be overwhelming at the best and worst of times! We're sending our love and support from here too!

Jennifer & Ryan Biggs

Kate the Peon said...

Angie:

I second what everyone else has said: You are a strong, fierce woman, and you have your sisters behind you.

Katey

Anonymous said...

Angie,
I am sorry that you have to go through this. Always remember the support & prayers you have from all your friends & family. You will be in our prayers.

Jimmy & Jenny Toth (Miller)

Anonymous said...

Angie,
I had no idea but I will be praying for you every day. Remember God is bigger than rare disease. (((hugs)))
Love,
Kim

Anonymous said...

Angie,
You are amazing and I'm so thankful that you are fighting! Know that you have a kick butt cheering section here in Atlanta walking beside you the whole way.
~Love you
Betsy

SOMMER said...

Angie,
I love you and stay strong be another Nancey Jaynes fighter. Be tough through it all.
LOVE YOUR COUSIN,
SOMMER

Barb said...

Hi Angie-it's Aunt Barb (Sommer is here and showed me how to do this blog thing)!! WHOOPIE!! Glad to hear you went to work yesterday-keep busy and keep that beautiful smile - remember what I said earlier - attitude - attitude!!
Love Aunt Barb & Uncle Bob

Anonymous said...

Angie,
I heard about your illness and all I could imagine was the cute little flower girl at my Daughter'(Dania's) wedding. I am glad your mom and you did not listen to this uninformed idea, "that cancer is not for the young" those that think that way have not been looking at hospital and oncology statistics..but thank God you did not let it go and I am sure well informed and letting no grass grow under your feet, you will beat this..my prayers are with you..love Grandma Rosie

Michele said...

Hi Angie~It's Phyllis (your dads cousin) daughter, Michele. I just heard about your horrible ordeal at your Grandmas funeral. I was just shocked. Your mom gave me the website to read your blog and I am in awe of your fighting spirit, positive attitude and sense of humor. As Aunt Es, used to tell Aunt Judi, you can't keep a good Swede down! You show 'em girl!
So proud of you and I will keep you, Morgan and your family in my prayers.
Love, Michele

NikNak_19 said...

Angie,

It has been so long, my Chi-O Grandkid! I've missed you so much, and I think about you all the time. This isn't how I had hoped to find you, but I am here for you. If you ever need anything, let me know!

You're going to get through this - you've always been strong, and I know that this is no different. You are going to beat IBC! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Love,
Nikki (Faris) Slovnik

Mary T. Koehler said...

Dear Angie,

I am your first cousin once-removed in-law (Marge's cousin.) I have been following your journey and sending email updates to the rest of the family. You have many "Angie's Angels" among the Koehlers! I am saddened by your illness and in awe of you courage and fortitude in fighting it. May the best be with you.

Love, Cousin Mary